Friday, July 24, 2009

AMAAAAAAAAAAZING!!

Yes I cried watching it, what a wonderful way to start married life! Well Done!!

Gimme the Night- Aretha Franklin- I Say A Little Prayer

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Gimme the Night- Brand New Heavies- Sometimes

Memories of Henry's Back bar!! Quality on this isn't great, so just get the album Shelter- you won't be disappointed xx

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Monday, July 13, 2009

"Advice, like youth, probably just wasted on the young"!

In 1997 the Chicago Tribune published this inspiring column written by Mary Schmich, look familiar??:

"Inside every adult lurks a graduation speaker dying to get out, some world-weary pundit eager to pontificate on life to young people who'd rather be Rollerblading. Most of us, alas, will never be invited to sow our words of wisdom among an audience of caps and gowns, but there's no reason we can't entertain ourselves by composing a
Guide to Life for Graduates.

I encourage anyone over 26 to try this and thank you for indulging my attempt".

Ladies and gentlemen of the class of '97:

Wear sunscreen.

If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice now.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded. But trust me, in 20 years, you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked. You are not as fat as you imagine.

Don't worry about the future. Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4 p.m. on some idle Tuesday.

Do one thing every day that scares you.

Sing.

Don't be reckless with other people's hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.

Floss.

Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself.

Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements.

Stretch.

Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives. Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't.

Get plenty of calcium. Be kind to your knees. You'll miss them when they're gone.

Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either. Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else's.

Enjoy your body. Use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or of what other people think of it. It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.

Dance, even if you have nowhere to do it but your living room.

Read the directions, even if you don't follow them.

Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly.
Get to know your parents. You never know when they'll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings. They're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.

Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard. Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft. Travel.

Accept certain inalienable truths: Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old. And when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.

Respect your elders.

Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out.

Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you're 40 it will look 85.

Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth.

But trust me on the sunscreen.
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Here's how you probably know it best:


So what are ya waiting for, get writing your speech...you never know it might inspire millions of people and make ya lots of money, or maybe it won't, either way, it'll be fun to do!!

xxMurphxx

Oxegen 2009...

... are you here???









Friday, July 10, 2009

There's no place like home!!

Well, I've moved house again and it is still one of the most stressful things to do. So after a couple of weeks now of shutting the door and ignoring the boxes piling up in the spare room I decided last night I better empty some of them... if only to stop kidding myself into believing I have no clothes and that a major spending spree is needed- now's not a good time!! I thought to myself this is not going to be a pleasant task, but it has to be done so why not try to at least make some of it pleasant. So off I trotted to the spare room, navigated my way through way too many boxes of CD's & DVD's and found the answer... One of the greatest movies of all time- The Wizard of Oz DVD. Because lets face it, The Wizard of Oz can make any task bearable. Him indoors had taken off to work so now was as good a time as any to turn it up loud and sing along- he's not a fan of the musicals funnily enough, or of me singing come to think of it! And sing-a-long I did at full volume, with the odd hop, skip and a jig thrown in for good measure too! Before I knew it I had a few boxes emptied and it was 1 o clock in the morning. It really is the simple pleasures in life!!
Ahhh There's no place like home!!